I have two neurodivergent children (ASD and ADHD). They are both fully verbal and present as any other peer, but they struggle with keeping up with day-to-day tasks and take slightly longer to process. I have one at school (10year old) who scoots himself to school and back each day and I have a 12-year-old who is currently home-schooled whilst he waits his SEND school placement. I wasn't sure if this is a job for a nanny or an au pair or childcare as it will require for you to stay over, feed the kids, walk the dog, pick up from school if it rains and entertain/home school my eldest during the day (although this is very informal and minimal) you would have your own room and bathroom. Also keep the house tidy i.e. load and unload dishwasher and washing machine etc. It would be great to meet you and for the kids to meet you beforehand to see if you get on.